A Public Voice For All The Hidden Victims

Anything that blows the lid open on this whole unsavoury business is a good thing and They Said To Me is making an important contribution. I hope more and more comments will be tagged to the service that spawned them so that services can be truly named and shamed. This should be the next #metoo movement and They Said To Me is on the front line calling the battle cry!

When Choice Is Not A Choice

I had a diagnosed extended breech baby in 2016. I was an otherwise fit and healthy first time mum with no other pregnancy complications. I was told by several consultants I should have a caesarean or my baby’s head could get stuck and they might die and birthing vaginally was risking my baby’s life. I

You Can’t Be In Labour

At 10am they had checked me - nothing to report. I wasn’t due to be checked again until 10pm - and as such, I couldn’t possibly be in labour, since the clock said I wasn’t.