They made me feel like a criminal and my baby would die.
She then told me because American women are fat and then when asking her about water birth, she said its far too dangerous because I could slip when getting out of the tub and kill my baby.
Unkindness in an early miscarriage with unnecessary examinations.
Caesarean, poor aftercare, last of consent and twin birth
My latest (I’ve had 7 babies already and have so many things I could tell you over my pregnancies and births it’s shocking)
Latest, I’m pregnant with DCDA twins. Consultant called me for a 16 week appointment.
"Caroline it is a 3rd section, it's going to smart a little, you know what you need,.. A takeaway!". The midwife tells me to get a takeaway.
6hrs later I was in ITU battling sepsis.
Piecemeal placenta they didn't get.
God complex, racism, body shaming - this is why this page exists.
Powerful words - "Why Didn't I Say No
A midwife not involving a woman in the decision making about her birth and body.
So many insensitive and throwaway comments from the midwives in Bedfordshire.